How do people change so quickly??

0Well its been hitting me for sometime now, but why do people change and how do people change! Well, i'm not talking about some ordinary changes that happen to a person. you may be a drunkard and the next day you may change into a normal person and get out of all habits but how can one forget love so easily? isn't it such an intense feeling? one day you are so madly in love with someone and the next day.. whoosh.. like that.. its gone!.. how is it even possible?? or are you just acting as though its all over?.. i've been into blogs for a long time, talking about science.. math.. and life.. and here i am talking about something totally different.. love.. is it really wrong to have an intense liking towards someone?.. why do people show their opposition when it comes to the topic of love? well.. story time.. i imagine it to be my own story.. lets have the name of the person to be... "princess".. there is this four year gap between the two of us.. its quite big and it was good because we understood each other almost too well.. we always wanted the best for each other!.. and then she ends up getting into trouble and so i tell her that maybe we should take a break from all this and concentrate on life.. she says no.. she pleads with me not to ignore her.. she wants me to be her friend.. at the least.. and it starts off again.. we are back at it.. all affectionate.. all smiles and all looking really good.. and then.. comes the tough days.. and suddenly the princess changes.. she starts to behave in a different way.. she tells me that it ain't worth the risk anymore, and if god willed, we would make it sometime in the future..!
Now tell me.. when has god really willed something? do u really think that he makes things happen in life?.. if so why couldn't he stop the 9/11 tragedy.. y couldn't he stop the tsunami.. its not god.. god doesn't exist in this world.. its just a belief.. or maybe he exists but one cannot expect him to do things for them! god is not jesus christ, god isn't allah, god isn't shiva. he doesn't have any form. if u believe in yourself, if u have a heart of gold, then you are God!.. its all about the feeling of godliness..
Anyway, coming back to topic.. she says that it will happen if god wills.. then she returns your priceless possessions back to you.. it should never have been returned.. and then she gets ruder by the day. she kills off his only hopes.. she moves away from him.. and she doesn't wanna tell him anything and make it clear to him! and he is just as confused as one cld ever get! he still loves her.. she means the world to him.. but on the other hand.. she is slowly getting over him.. or is she? he still doesn't know and he trusts her so much that he thinks that she wouldn't be how people predict her to be!
Then comes this opportunity, she makes one indirect rude statement.. now what was that?.. i changed my status message on a community to "all i needed was an assurance".. and she changed hers to "y do i even care".. and it couldn't get more hurting!.. i wanted to talk to her.. and i found a way.. a friend of hers helped me.. i got in through his id and i started talking to her.. i told her that it was me.. and she didn't even wanna listen to my words.. she said that she had just come to her senses and she didn't wanna make another mistake!.. so.. it was a mistake all along? was it?.. how rude! and when i asked her if she just wanted to chuck me off her life.. she said that it wasn't like that and it was just that she had other priorities in life and she didn't wanna take risks again in her life! well.. i was at least happy for a reason because she didn't tell me that she wanted to chuck me off! and risks? i never wanted to take any risks till now! she wanted to! and she was the one who told me that without risks, things ain't possible! everytime i used to message her, i used to tell her "no risks".. and maybe she has understood it all wrong! and what is all this priority talk? its what i've been trying to tell her for years! though she has great respect for her mother, she always felt that she was a bugging character, irritating.. i told her several times that the bugging attitude of her mother was due to excessive love that she possessed for her daughter.. but the princess hardly understood that! she never used to listen and now she says she has realized things and the person who was with her through thick and thin suddenly doesn't mean anything anymore to her! it can never get more hurting..
And on top of this.. she tells me that she doesn't think that it will all work out.. and that all hope is lost! is that a statement that was said by mistake or did she literally mean it? well, i can just make out one thing from this! either she has said this out of sheer frustration or she has said this out of sheer sorrow! and i can understand her position! i don't want her to risk things, i am ready to accept things, i can accept it if i don't meet her, i can accept it if i don't talk to her.. as long as she is going to be there for me when i make it at one point of life..
I just asked her for that bit of assurance and she didn't wanna give me that! she told me that she cannot promise me anything and that it will happen if it has to! well, it will happen only if we want it to happen! now, she is out of that and its just me who wants things to happen! and how is it really possible for me to keep the strings tight all by myself!
She could and should have given me an assurance.. didn't i deserve even that in life? I just hope she thinks about it! I still love her! She means the world to me and she will always do!